As an introvert there are very few things in this world I enjoy more than canceled plans. It’s not (always) that I don’t want to attend whatever social function I’m committed to, it’s that canceled plans feel like a gift from the universe. Here are five reasons why I absolutely love canceled plans.
1. A chance to recharge and rejuvenate
Canceled plans provide me with a much-needed opportunity to recharge my social battery. Social interactions can be draining for me, as they require a significant amount of mental and emotional energy. Even in those rare cases where I actually look forward to attending a social event, I dread the inevitable energy drain. Canceled plans allow me to reclaim that energy and spend time in my own company, engaging in activities that nourish my soul. Whether it's reading a book, pursuing a hobby, or simply enjoying quiet contemplation, I relish these moments to rejuvenate and regain balance.
2. Uninterrupted reflection and introspection
I have a rich inner world, and canceled plans offer the chance to delve into deep introspection without any external distractions. I value self-reflection and introspection as a means of personal growth and self-understanding. Canceled plans provide the ideal backdrop for uninterrupted contemplation, allowing me to process my thoughts, explore my emotions, and gain valuable insights into myself and the world around me.
3. Freedom from social pressure
I often feel pressure to conform to extroverted norms and expectations when I’m in social situations. Canceled plans are like a giant weight being lifted off my shoulders. I can be myself without the need to constantly engage in small talk or maintain a certain level of sociability. This sudden freedom allows me to fully embrace my authentic self and honor my need for personal space.
4. Quality time with close connections
As much as I cherish solitude, I also value deep and meaningful connections with (a few) others. Canceled plans provide an opportunity to spend quality time with my closest friends or loved ones, and engage in more intimate and meaningful interactions. I thrive in one-on-one or small group settings, where I can engage in deep conversations, share my thoughts, and truly connect on a profound level. For me, it’s these moments that strengthen existing relationships and cultivate a sense of belonging.
5. Creative pursuits and personal growth
With canceled plans, I have the freedom to immerse myself in creative pursuits and personal growth activities. Whether it's catching up with my hobbies, painting, or reading, I cherish the opportunity to delve into my passions without interruption. These moments of solitude allow me to tap into my creativity, explore new ideas, and develop my skills and interests.
Until next time, Stay Introverted.
Jay